Why is it that when God gives us a Word or some form of direction for our lives we want to wait for someone else to consign His assignment for us? That’s just crazy! But we do it all the time. We look for confirmation to do what God has already told us to do. Why? Well, most of the time it boils down to one thing, fear. The majority of the time we’re just afraid. Afraid of failure, afraid of doing the wrong thing, afraid that God’s will won’t align with our personal desires. Fear.
Waiting for someone else to assure that the Word that God gave us is real is not only crazy, it’s dangerous. No one is more in tune to our lives and our best interests than our Lord and Savior. Not our friends, family or even our spouse. And the truth of the matter is, the people we love won’t always understand or agree with the things that God has told us to do. We’re looking for confirmation from people that have no idea what greatness God has in store for us, allowing them to speak into our lives as we move in the opposite direction God has called us. This is why our personal relationships with Christ are so critical.
Now, seeking counsel in general is not a bad thing. Sometimes we struggle with discernment and may not be sure that it’s God leading us in a certain direction. In those cases I would definitely recommend leveraging three keys which I’ve outlined here. But be careful that you don’t get caught up in confirmation. If God has told you to do something, trust His word over anyone else’s, anyone. Even if it makes absolutely no sense at all, trust God. Don’t let the enemy steal what God has for you because you didn’t get confirmation on your next move. He will clear the path before you and everything will fall in place as you glorify Him along the way.